Monday, October 21, 2019

Homosexuality

What does the Bible say about homosexuality? By homosexuality in this article
I mean practicing it, living out a homosexual orientation.

Jesus loves all people (John 3:16–17, 2 Pet 3:9b). Even people who practice 
a homosexual orientation. But that doesn't mean he approves such a lifestyle,
see article 
How can Christians make sense of all the gender confusion in the world?


Homosexuality in the Old Testament:


Practicing homosexuality is ungodly and a sin against God. It's an abomination according to the Old Testament (OT) Law (Lev (3 Mos) 18:22–24). 
There isn't one verse in the OT that supports the practice of homosexuality.

The men of Sodom wanted sexual relations with two angels, who they thought 
were men (Gen (1 Mos) 19:1–11). They practiced homosexuality (Jude 1:7).
It was an attempted sexual assault; homosexual gang rape. Gang rape
was probably
 common in Sodom and Gomorrah. These cities were obviously destroyed because of this type of sinful behavior related to sexual abuse. 

A woman shouldn't wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman’s garment (transvestism) (Deu (5 Mos) 22:5). It's an abomination according to the Law in the OT. We shouldn't wear clothes that confuse the sexes, our identity as male and female. See it clarified at time 19:41–23:18 in Bible Q&A ∙ Episode 12.
See also the article Can men wear feminine clothing — and vice versa? Society
tries to remove the distinction between man and woman, but that isn't God's will.
See how to deal with that at time 8:19–11:12 in Bible Q&A • Episode 58.

Homosexuality in the New Testament:


The New Testament (NT) describes the New Covenant that Jesus introduced
(Luk 22:19-20) and was activated at his death on the cross, see
The Atonement.

Homosexuality is one of several consequences because people have rejected God and is against nature (Rom 1:18–32), see time 28:43–32:19
in
Romans 1 (Part 2) :18-32 The Wrath of God
. It’s shameful to God.
God’s invisible attributes are clearly seen by the things that have been made
since the creation of the world. Therefore, there is no excuse for rejecting God.

The NT says that people who practice homosexuality will not inherit the kingdom
of God (1 Cor 6:9–10). We shouldn't be deceived by society that says it’s OK
to live out a homosexual orientation. Society has removed it as a sin, but God hasn’t.
God hasn't changed his mind about 
practicing homosexuality in the New Covenant.

An argument to live out a homosexual orientation is that man isn't justified
by the works of the 
Mosaic Laws in the OT but by faith in Jesus Christ (Gal 2:16).
But the moral laws among the 
Mosaic Laws 
regarding sexual relations are similar
and even stricter in the New Covenant than it was in the Old C
ovenant,
see 
Jesus and the Law
 and the comment to the 7th commandment
in the 
The Ten Commandments.

Another argument for allowing homosexuality is that Jesus didn't specifically speak about it. But Jesus didn't specifically speak about pedophilia or bestiality 
which are considered wrong even by our society. So that argument doesn't hold. When Jesus spoke about sexual relations, it was always between male and female (Mat 19:4–5).

There isn't one verse in the NT that supports the practice of homosexuality.

What to do if being homosexual:


There is very little (if any) scientific evidence that a person can be born homosexual. There is no consensus among researchers on how to develop a homosexual orientation. Many think it’s an adaptation. But even if so, it's against God's Word, see time 0:53–4:45 in Bible Q&A • Episode 54.

If you struggle with homosexuality, see as encouragement time 6:00–13:53
in the video 
Titus 3 • Be careful to devote ourselves to good works.
See also what to do in the article 
Can God help me to break this cycle of sin?

We are all born with a nature that has been affected by sin. We are all sinners
(Rom 3:23, 1 John 1:8–10). Because of that, we all have weaknesses
of various kinds. We all struggle with different temptations. A weakness
isn't an excuse for participating in it. God 
doesn't allow us to be tempted
beyond our ability 
(1 Cor 10:13). Take steps to avoid environments
that you may not be able to handle in a biblical way. We must choose
not to give in to temptations (Rom 13:13–14). 
See Sanctification.

As Christians, we are sanctified and can be set free (1 Cor 6:9–11).
Jesus came to call sinners to repentance (Mark 2:16–17, 1 Tim 1:15).
Sin includes living out a homosexual orientation, see it explained at: 
We can be freed from the bondage of sin:
  1. Living out a homosexual orientation as a Christian isn't
    how God wants us to live. It's not what God created us to do.
  2. Such a person needs to repent from doing this and is then forgiven.
  3. Invite Jesus into your life as your Savior, if you haven't already done that
    (John 5:24, 2 Cor 5:17), see Salvation. He forgives your sinful living,
    see time 24:16–27:46 in
    Bible Q&A • Episode 32.

How to relate to homosexual persons as a Christian:


As Christians we need to do the following:
  1. See How do we love someone who is homosexual without condoning their sin?
  2. If you hate or dislike homosexuals, you need to repent. There is no room for that for a Christian, even if people live a lifestyle that is contrary to the lifestyle of what is written in God's Word. Jesus also gave his life for them.
  3. We should show love, compassion, and deal with it in a loving way,
    see time 45:06–48:27 in
    Bible Q & A With Pastor Paul │December 2023.
    We can even associate on an individual level with such a person (Gal 6:1).
    At the church level, we may need to withdraw from such a person
    (1 Cor 5:9–11, 2 Thess 3:6, 14–15), see 
    Psalm 101: How to live a holy life. See this explained at time 43:37–45:53 in Bible Q & A With Pastor Paul . . .
    .
  4. We should be characterized by a gentle and tender spirit towards homosexuals and their concerns. Jesus died no less for them than for anyone else
    (John 3:17). We should invite them to our services, to our churches.
  5. We should pray for salvation for homosexuals, as we do for anyone else.
    It's not a question of hatred, bigotry, or 
    homophobia. That's wrong behaviour.
  6. However, we must stand by God's Word: "The grass withers, the flower fades, but the Word of our God will stand forever." (Isaiah 40:8). 
    See the consequences of this in these videos:
It means teaching in the church that it's not OK to live out a homosexual orientation as a Christian. A Christian congregation therefore can't support such an approach, because it would be disobedience to the Word of God (2 Tim 3:14–17). 
It's not personal, it's about obedience to God's Word. See also the meaning of
Do not judge others in The Sermon on the Mount. Jesus said: 
  • "If anyone loves me, he will keep my Word, and my Father will
    love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. Whoever does not love me does not keep my words. And the Word that
    you hear is not mine but the 
    Father’s who sent me." (John 14:23–24). 
  • "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love." (John 15:9–10).
See also Some stories in the Gospels at the end of The Four Gospels.