Friday, January 1, 2021

Stephen, the first Christian Martyr

Stephen, full of grace and power, was doing great wonders and signs among the people. Then some of those who belonged to the synagogue of the Freedmen (as it was called), and of the Cyrenians, and of the Alexandrians,
and of those from Cilicia and Asia, rose up and disputed with 
Stephen. But they could not withstand the wisdom and the Spirit with which he was speaking. Then they secretly instigated men who said: "We have heard him speak blasphemous words against Moses and God." And they stirred up the people and
the elders and the scribes, and they came upon him and seized him and brought him before the council, and they set up false witnesses who said: "This man never ceases to speak words against this holy place and the Law, for we have heard him say that this Jesus of Nazareth will destroy this place and will change the customs that Moses delivered to us." And gazing at him, all who sat in the 
council saw that his face
was like the face of an angel. (Acts 6:8
15).

Stephen was one of the seven deacons in the early church. It's very possible
that Paul was among the men from 
Cilicia (Acts 7:58b, 22:20). Paul was born
in Tarsus, which was the capital of the province of 
Cilicia in the Roman Empire.

The following speech by Stephen is taken from Acts 7:160:

And the high priest said: "Are these things so?" And Stephen said: "Brothers and fathers, hear me. The God of glory appeared to our father Abraham when he was
in
Mesopotamia, before he lived in Haran, and said to him: 'Go out from your land and from your kindred and go into the land that I will show you.' Then he went out from the land of the Chaldeans and lived in 
Haran. And after his father died, God removed him from there into this land in which you are now living. Yet he gave him no inheritance in it, not even a foot’s length, but promised to give it to him as
a possession and to his offspring after him, though he had no child. And God spoke to this effect—that his offspring would be sojourners in a land belonging to others, who would enslave them and afflict them 400 years. God said: '
But I will judge
the nation that they serve and after that they shall come out and worship me
in this place.
' And he gave him the covenant of circumcision. And so 
Abraham became the father of Isaac, and circumcised him on the eighth day, and Isaac became the father of Jacob, and Jacob of the twelve patriarchs.

And the patriarchs, jealous of Joseph, sold him into Egypt; but God was with him and rescued him out of all his afflictions and gave him favor and wisdom before Pharaoh, king of Egypt, who made him ruler over Egypt and over all his household. Now there came a famine throughout all Egypt and Canaan, and great affliction, and our fathers could find no food. But when Jacob heard that there was grain in Egypt, he sent out our fathers on their first visit. And on the second visit Joseph made himself known to his brothers, and Joseph’s family became known to Pharaoh. And Joseph sent and summoned Jacob his father and all his kindred, 75 persons in all. And Jacob 
went down into Egypt, and he died, he and our fathers, and they were carried back to
Shechem and laid in the tomb that 
Abraham had bought for a sum
of silver from the sons of Hamor in 
Shechem

But as the time of the promise drew near, which God had granted to Abraham, the people increased and multiplied in Egypt until there arose over Egypt another king who did not know Joseph. He dealt shrewdly with our race and forced our fathers to expose their infants, so that they would not be kept alive. At this time Moses was born; and he was beautiful in God’s sight. And he was brought up for three months in his father’s house, and when he was exposed, Pharaoh’s daughter adopted him and brought him up as her own son. And Moses was instructed in all the wisdom of the Egyptians, and he was mighty in his words and deeds. When he was forty years old, it came into his heart to visit his brothers, the children of Israel. And seeing one of them being wronged, he defended the oppressed man and avenged him by striking down the Egyptian. He supposed that his brothers would understand that God was giving them salvation by his hand, but they did not understand. And on the following day he appeared to them as they were quarreling and tried to reconcile them, saying: 'Men, you are brothers. Why do you wrong each other?' But the man who was wronging his neighbor thrust him aside, saying: 'Who made you a ruler and a judge over us? Do you want to kill me as you killed the Egyptian yesterday?'
At this retort 
Moses fled and became an exile in the land of Midian,
where he became the father of two sons. 

Now when forty years had passed, an angel appeared to him in the wilderness of Mount Sinai, in a flame of fire in a bush. When Moses saw it, he was amazed at the sight, and as he drew near to look, there came the voice of the Lord:
'
I am the God of your fathers, the God of 
Abraham and of Isaac and of Jacob.'
And 
Moses trembled and did not dare to look. Then the Lord said to him:
'
Take off the sandals from your feet, for the place where you are standing
is holy ground. I have surely seen the affliction of my people who are in Egypt,
and have heard their groaning, and I have come down to deliver them.
And now come, I will send you to Egypt.
'

This Moses, whom they rejected, saying: 'Who made you a ruler and a judge?'
this man God sent as both ruler and redeemer by the hand of the angel who appeared to him in the bush. This man led them out, performing wonders and signs in Egypt and at the Red Sea and in the wilderness for forty years.
This is the Moses who said to the Israelites: 'God will raise up for you a prophet like me from your brothers.' This is the one who was in the congregation in the wilderness with the angel who spoke to him at Mount Sinai, and with our fathers.
He received living oracles to give to us. Our fathers refused to obey him, but thrust him aside, and in their hearts they turned to Egypt, saying to
Aaron:
'
Make for us gods who will go before us. As for this Moses who led us out from the land of Egypt, we do not know what has become of him.' And they made a calf
in those days, and offered a sacrifice to the idol and were rejoicing in the works
of their hands. But God turned away and gave them over to worship the host of Heaven, as it is written in the book of the prophets: ‘
Did you bring to me
slain beasts and sacrifices, during the forty years in the wilderness, 
O house of Israel? You took up the tent of Moloch and the star of your god Rephan, the images that you made to worship; and I will send you into exile beyond Babylon.

Our fathers had the tent of witness in the wilderness, just as he who spoke
to
Moses directed him to make it, according to the pattern that he had seen.
Our fathers in turn brought it in with
Joshua when they dispossessed
the nations that God drove out before our fathers. 

So it was until the days of David, who found favor in the sight of God and asked
to find a dwelling place for the God of 
Jacob. But it was Solomon who built a house for him. Yet the Most High does not dwell in houses made by hands, as the prophet says: 'Heaven is my throne, and the Earth is my footstool. What kind of house will you build for me, says the Lord, or what is the place of my rest? Did not my hand make all these things?

You stiff-necked people, uncircumcised in heart and ears, you always resist
the
Holy Spirit. As your fathers did, so do you. Which of the prophets did
your fathers not persecute? And they killed those who announced beforehand
the coming of the Righteous One, whom you have now betrayed and murdered, you who received the
Law as delivered by angels and did not keep it.

Now when they heard these things they were enraged, and they ground their teeth at him. But he, full of the Holy Spirit, gazed into Heaven and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing at the right hand of God. And he said: "Behold, I see the heavens opened, and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God.

But they cried out with a loud voice and stopped their ears and rushed together at him. Then they cast him out of the city and stoned him.

And the witnesses laid down their garments at the feet of a young man named Saul. And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out: "Lord Jesus, receive my spirit." And falling to his knees he cried out with a loud voice: "Lord, do not hold this sin against them." And when he had said this, he fell asleep.

Some comments to Stephen's speech in Acts 7:160:

The Israelites were enslaved and afflicted for 400 years,
first mistreated in Canaan and then 
mistreated  and enslaved in Egypt,
see time 9:09-11:04 in 
How Long Were The Israelites In Egypt?

The number of Jacob's descendants who came to Egypt was 75 and not 70,
see  time 26:50–28:24 in Were the Pyramids Built Before the Flood?

See "uncircumcised in heart and ears" explained at time 21:16–24:12 in
Acts 6 (Part 2) :8-15 & Acts 7 • Stephen, the first Christian Martyr.

Stephen spoke boldly with the power and wisdom of the Holy Spirit. But the people didn't want to hear the truth and killed him for doing so. See time 25:26–27:56 in
Acts 6 (Part 2) :8-15 & Acts 7 • Stephen, the first Christian Martyr.

The young man Saul is the same person as Paul before his Christian conversion.

The term "fell asleep" is a common biblical euphemism for Christian death, see time 28:28–29:15 in Acts 6 (Part 2) :8-15 & Acts 7 • Stephen, the first Christian Martyr.

See Blessed are those who are persecuted in The Sermon on the Mount, and The Sufferings of the Present Age and This World is Not Our Home
in The Book of Romans.

See also The Book of Acts and Some stories close related to the gospels 
at the end of The Four Gospels.

The Life of the Early Church

The believers in Christ devoted themselves to the apostle’s teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions
to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. (Acts 2:42–47).

They had rules for having everything in common (2 Thess 3:10). They didn't think that it was compassionate to distribute without taking responsibility. They realized that when you just hand out, people become lazy. Therefore, they needed to have rules, requirements that come with giving food for free to make this work in the long run. See the beginning of Ananias and Sapphira. The life of the early church was a place of compassion, but also a place of expectation. But this doesn't mean that we should apply this principle in our time, to have everything in common.

These believers in the early church devoted themselves to:

There were growth in the early church (Acts 2:47b). When we are focused on
God's Word, and and there is compassion, caring, giving, love, and forgiveness
(see Forgive and You will Be Forgiven), it will grow. 
See also time 40:03–41:57 in Acts 2 (Part 2) • The Life of the Church.

Now many signs and wonders were regularly done among the people by the hands of the apostles (see Peter Heals a Lame Beggar). And they were all together in Solomon’s Portico. None of the rest dared join them, but the people held them in high esteem. And more than ever believers were added to the Lord, multitudes of both men and women, so that they even carried out the sick into the streets and laid them on cots and mats, that as Peter came by at least his shadow might fall on some of them. The people gathered from the towns around Jerusalem, bringing the sick and those afflicted with unclean spirits, and they were all healed. (Acts 5:12–16).

They met in the temple. Miracles were meant to confirm, authenticate and validate the message of Jesus Christ. We must not separate the miracles from the message. We live in a broken world that needs this message of hope to be preached and taught, see Hope in Faith, Hope, and Agape Love.

And they went out and preached everywhere, while the Lord worked with them and confirmed the message by accompanying signs (Mark 16:20),
see Was Mark 16:9–20 in the Original Text?

But the high priest rose up, and all who were with him (that is, the party of the Sadducees (who don't believe in angels or a resurrection)), and filled with jealousy they arrested the apostles and put them in the public prison. But during the night an angel of the Lord opened the prison doors and brought them out, and said: "Go and stand in the temple and speak to the people all the words of this Life." And when they heard this, they entered the temple at daybreak and began to teach. Now when the high priest came, and those who were with him, they called together the council, all the senate of the people of Israel, and sent to the prison to have them brought. But when the officers came, they didn't find them in the prison, so they returned and reported: "We found the prison securely locked and the guards standing at the doors, but when we opened them we found no one inside." Now when the captain of the temple and the chief priests heard these words, they were greatly perplexed about them, wondering what this would come to. And someone came and told them: "Look! The men whom you put in prison are standing in the temple and teaching the people." Then the captain with the officers went and brought them, but not by force, for they were afraid of being stoned by the people. And when they had brought them, they set them before the council. And the high priest questioned them, saying: "We strictly charged you not to teach in this name, yet here you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching, and you intend to bring this man’s blood upon us." But Peter and the apostles answered: "We must obey God rather than men. The God of our fathers raised Jesus, whom you killed by hanging him on a tree. God exalted him at his right hand as Leader and Savior, to give repentance to Israel and forgiveness of sins. And we are witnesses to these things, and so is the Holy Spirit, whom God has given to those who obey him." When they heard this, they were enraged and wanted to kill them. But a Pharisee in the council named Gamaliel, a teacher of the law held in honor by all the people, stood up and gave orders to put the men outside for a little while. And he said to them: "Men of Israel, take care what you are about to do with these men. For before these days Theudas rose up, claiming to be somebody, and a number of men, about 400, joined him. He was killed, and all who followed him were dispersed and came to nothing. After him Judas the Galilean rose up in the days of the census and drew away some of the people after him. He too perished, and all who followed him were scattered. So in the present case I tell you, keep away from these men and let them alone, for if this plan or this undertaking is of man, it will fail;
but if it is of God, you will not be able to overthrow them. You might even
be found opposing God!
" So they took his advice, and when they had called in the apostles, they beat them and charged them not to speak in the name
of Jesus, and let them go
. Then they left the presence of the council,
rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the name.
And every day, in the temple and from house to house, they didn't cease
teaching and preaching that the Christ is Jesus. 
(Acts 5:17–42).

See Jesus 4th words on the cross in The Crucifixion of Jesus. That God the Father exalted Jesus at his right hand speaks of Jesus' strength, power, and supremacy.

The principle of Gamaliel is called Gamaliel's principle (if it's not of God it will not last). However: ". . . the Gamaliel principle is not a reliable index to what is from God and what is not." (John R.W Stott). The test of time isn't the perfect test because it's not always true. But it benefited the apostles at this time.

The apostles were badly beaten (Acts 5:40), but rejoiced that they were counted worthy to suffer disgrace for Christ (Acts 5:41). We must remember that it's a blessing to be persecuted for Christ (1 Pet 4:1214). It's a biblical worldview, 
see The Sufferings of the Present Age in The Book of Romans

In the face of persecution, they didn't cease to teach and preach that 
Christ is Jesus (Acts 5:42), see the difference between teach and preach at time 35:22–38:35 in Acts 5 (Part 2) :12-42 • Miracles, Persecution and the Good News.

Now in these days when the disciples were increasing in number, a complaint by
the Hellenists arose against the Hebrews because their widows were being neglected in the daily distribution. And the twelve summoned the full number of the disciples and said: "It's not right that we should give up preaching the Word of God to serve tables. Therefore, brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute,
full of the 
Spirit and of wisdom, whom we will appoint to this duty. But we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry of the Word." And what they said pleased the whole gathering, and they chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit, and Philip, and Prochorus, and Nicanor, and Timon, and Parmenas, and Nicolaus, a proselyte of Antioch. These they set before the apostles,
and they prayed and laid their hands on them. And the Word of God continued
to increase, and the number of the disciples multiplied greatly in Jerusalem,
and a great many of the priests became obedient to the faith. 
(Acts 6:1–7).

Even though the early church was predominant Jewish, there were people who had come from very different backgrounds. The Hebrew Jews came from a Jewish background. But there was also a lot of Greek talking Hellenistic Jews scattered to other parts of the Roman Empire who were raised in a Roman culture. Because these Hellenistic Jews were different, their widows were neglected. This is human nature. People who are perceived differently are unfortunately treated differently.

We usually respond by rejecting them or being suspicious of them just because they are different in some way. This is obvious not a good thing. The church eventually created a "widows list", that is, widows who would qualify to receive support from the church, something that developed over time (1 Tim. 5:3, 9–10).

There were three things that the apostles wanted these seven deacons to have:

  • A good reputation.
  • Full of the Spirit, that is the evidence that the fruits of the Holy Spirit 
    were seen or could be seen in the lives of these men.
  • Full of wisdom, that is, knowing how to solve this kind of problems.

The men chosen to handle this were all Greek Jews in the sense of their names,
with the exception of Nicolaus, who was a Gentile who had converted (becoming a proselyte) to Judaism and later become a Christian follower. This means that these men were Greek by culture and therefore could handle this properly without neglect the Hellenistic widows, since they understood their culture.

The qualifications of deacons became more developed over time
in the Body of Christ, see The Book of Timothy

Stephen, one of seven deaconswas killed, see Stephen, the first Christian Martyr.

And Saul approved Stephen's execution. And there arose on that day a great
persecution against the church in Jerusalem, and they were all scattered throughout the regions of Judea and Samaria, except the apostles. Devout men buried Stephen and made great lamentation over him. But Saul was ravaging the church, and entering house after house, he dragged off men and women and committed them to prison. Now those who were scattered went about preaching the wordPhilip went down to the city of Samaria and proclaimed to them the Christ. And the crowds with one accord paid attention to what was being said by Philip, when they heard him and saw the signs that he did. For unclean spirits, crying out with a loud voice, came out of many who had them, and many who were paralyzed or lame were healed. So there was
much joy in that city. (Acts 8:1
8).

Philip, one of seven deaconswas an evangelist, see Philip and the Ethiopian Eunuch.

But there was a man named Simon, who had previously practiced magic in the city and amazed the people of Samaria, saying that he himself was somebody great. They all paid attention to him, from the least to the greatest, saying: "This man is the power of God that is called Great." And they paid attention to him because for a long time he had amazed them with his magic. But when they believed Philip as he preached good news about the kingdom of God and the name of Jesus Christ, they were baptized, both men and women. Even Simon himself believed, and after being baptized he continued with Philip. And seeing signs and great miracles performed,
he was amazed. Now when the apostles at Jerusalem heard that Samaria had received the Word of God, they sent to them Peter and John, who came down and prayed for them that they might receive the Holy Spirit, for he had not yet fallen on any of them, but they had only been baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. Then they laid their hands on them and they received the Holy Spirit. Now when Simon saw that the Spirit was given through the laying on of the apostles' hands, he offered them money, saying: "Give me this power also, so that anyone on whom I lay my hands may receive the Holy Spirit." But Peter said to him: "May your silver perish with you, because you thought you could obtain the gift of God with money! You have neither part nor lot in this matter, for your heart is not right before God. Repent, therefore, of this wickedness of yours, and pray to the Lord
that, if possible, the intent of your heart may be forgiven you. For I see that you are in the gall of bitterness and in the bond of iniquity." And Simon answered: "Pray for me to the Lord, that nothing of what you have said may come upon me." Now when they had testified and spoken the Word of the Lord, they returned to Jerusalem, preaching the gospel to many villages of the Samaritans
(Acts 8:925).

The believers in Samaria had not yet received the baptism of the Holy Spirit. But they had received the Holy Spirit to indwell them when they came to believe in Jesus Christ, see Salvation. The Holy Spirit came upon them when Peter and John
prayed and laid their hands on them, see The Gift of Tongues. When Peter spoke to Simon he used The Word of knowledge, see Spiritual Gifts. See also about
Simon at time 19:46–35:54 in Acts 8 (Part 1) :1-25 • Persecution and Growth.

Philip, one of seven deaconswas an evangelist, see Philip and the Ethiopian Eunuch.

Jesus also appeared to Saul, who became a follower of Christ and even an apostle, see Paul the ApostleAs a result, the church throughout all Judea, Galilee, and Samaria had peace and was being built up. And as it walked in the fear of the Lord and in the comfort of the Holy Spirit, it multiplied. (Acts 9:31).

Now as Peter went here and there among them all, he came down also to the saints who lived at Lydda. There he found a man named Aeneas, bedridden for eight years, who was paralyzed. And Peter said to him: "Aeneas, Jesus Christ heals you; rise and make your bed." And immediately he rose. And all the residents of
Lydda and Sharon (a plain between the mountains and the Mediterranean Sea from Lydda north to around Caesarea) saw him, and they turned to the Lord.
(Acts 9:32–35).

Now there was in Joppa a disciple named Tabitha, which, translated, means Dorcas. She was full of good works and acts of charity. In those days she became ill and died, and when they had washed her, they laid her
in an upper room. Since Lydda was near
Joppa, the disciples, hearing that Peter
was there, sent two men to him, urging him: "Please come to us without delay." So Peter rose and went with them.
And when he arrived, they took him
to the upper room. All the widows stood beside him weeping and showing tunics and other garments that Dorcas made while she was with them. But Peter 
put them all outside, and knelt down and prayed; and turning to the body
he said: 
"Tabitha, arise."
She opened her eyes, and when she saw Peter she sat up. And he gave her
his hand and raised her up. Then, calling the saints and widows, 
he presented her alive. And it became known throughout all Joppa, and many believed in the Lord.
He stayed in 
Joppa for many days with Simon the Tanner(Acts 9:3643). 

See also Peter Sent to the Gentiles.

Those who had been scattered because of the persecution that arose over Stephen
before Saul's conversion traveled as far as Phoenicia, Cyprus, and Antioch, speaking the Word to no one except Jews. But there were some of them, men of Cyprus and Cyrene, who on coming to Antioch spoke to the Hellenists also, preaching the Lord Jesus. And the hand of the Lord was with them, and a great number who believed turned to the Lord. The report of this came to the ears of the church in Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas to Antioch. When he came and saw the grace of God, he was glad, and he exhorted them all to remain faithful to the Lord with steadfast purpose, for he was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and of faith. And
a great many people were added to the Lord. So Barnabas went to Tarsus to look for Saul, and when he had found him, he brought him to Antioch. For a whole year they met with the church and taught a great many people. And in Antioch
the disciples were first called Christians
. Now in these days prophets came down from Jerusalem to Antioch. And one of them named Agabus stood up and foretold by the Spirit that there would be a great famine over all the world
(this took place in the days of Claudius). So the disciples determined, every one according to his ability, to send relief to the brothers living in Judea. They did so, sending it to the elders by the hand of Barnabas and Saul
(Acts 11:1930).

These new believers needed teachers of God's Word like Barnabas and Saul to mature in their faith. Prophets came to Antioch, see Spiritual GiftsAntioch is the city that would become the center of Christianity towards the end of the first century.
They put together a relief package to the brothers living in Judea. Apparently, some of the famine was more severe in the area around Judea and surrounding Jerusalem.

In the church at Antioch there would be prophets and teachers (Eph 4:1112);
BarnabasSimeon who was called NigerLucius of CyreneManaen, a lifelong friend of Herod the tetrarch, and Saul (Acts 13:1). See The Book of Ephesians.

About that time Herod the king laid violent hands on some who belonged to the church. He killed James the brother of John with the sword, and when he saw that it pleased the Jews, he proceeded to arrest Peter also. This was during the days of Unleavened Bread. And when he had seized him, he put him in prison, delivering him over to four squads (16 persons) of soldiers to guard him, intending after the Passover (after the eight days) to bring him out to the people. So Peter was kept in prison, but earnest prayer for him was made to God
by the church. Now when 
Herod was about to bring him out, on that very night,
Peter was sleeping between two soldiers, bound with two chains, and sentries before the door were guarding the prison. And behold, an angel
of the Lord stood next to him, and a light shone in the cell. He struck 
Peter on
the side and woke him, saying: "Get up quickly." And the chains fell off his hands. And the angel said to him: "Dress yourself and put on your sandals." And he did so. And he said to him: "Wrap your cloak around you and follow me." And he went out and followed him. He didn't know that what was being done by the angel was real, but thought he was seeing a vision. When they had passed the first and the second guard, they came to the iron gate leading into the city. It opened for them of its own accord, and they went out and went along one street, and immediately the angel left him. When 
Peter came to himself, he said: "Now I am sure that the Lord has sent his angel and rescued me from the hand of Herod and from all that the Jewish people were expecting." When he realized this, he went to the house of Mary, the mother
of John whose other name was Mark, where many were gathered together and were praying. And when he knocked at the door of the gateway, a servant girl named Rhoda came to answer. Recognizing 
Peter’s voice, in her joy she did not open the gate but ran in and reported that Peter was standing at the gate. They said to her: "You are out of your mind." But she kept insisting that it was so, and they kept saying: "It is his angel!" But Peter continued knocking, and when they opened,
they saw him and were amazed. But motioning to them with his hand to be silent,
he described to them how the 
Lord had brought him out of the prison.
And he said: "Tell these things to James and to the brothers." Then he departed
and went to another place. Now when day came, there was no little disturbance among the soldiers over what had become of 
Peter. And after Herod searched
for him and did not find him, he examined the sentries and ordered
that they should be put to death
. Then 
Herod went down from Judea
to Caesarea and spent time there. (Acts 12:119).

Now Herod was angry with the people of Tyre and Sidon, and they came to him
with one accord, and having persuaded Blastus, the king’s chamberlain, they
asked for peace, because their country depended on the king’s country for food.
On an appointed day Herod put on his royal robes, took his seat upon the throne, and delivered an oration to them. And the people were shouting: "The voice of a god, and not of a man!" Immediately an angel of the Lord struck him down, because he did not give God the glory, and he was eaten by worms and breathed his last. But the Word of God increased and multiplied. And Barnabas and Saul returned from Jerusalem when they had completed their service,
bringing with them John, whose other name was Mark
(Acts 12:2025).

The lesson we get from this passage of Scripture is that Herod's pride was his downfall. What Herod fell to in this passage is something that inhabits all of us. It's one of the most dangerous things that can take hold of our lives even as believers. See Pride of life explained in The Book of John.

After Saul's conversion to Paul the Apostle, he made three missionary journeys:

Then he was taken to Rome, see Apostle Paul's Journey to Rome as Prisoner.

In our day, there are more of an individualized, privatized form of Christianity. The Lord’s walk has been more of a private thing. In the early church, it was more
of people connecting with people, with all the messy drama that can come with that. Many born again believers stay away from church because of the messy drama. 

The church is made up of people who are born again but still dealing with their sinful nature. So we step on each other from time to time and we get weird.
We say things or do things that upset others. But that’s part of being a family. Many believers choose to avoid this drama altogether by not attending church services
.
We need each other to form this collective whole that is the Body of Christ.

That said, live streaming on the internet has opened up the gospel to people
who don't normally attend churches, and this has been positive in our time.

See also The Book of Acts and Some stories close related to the gospels
at the end of The Four Gospels.

Dealing With Sin in the Church

Jesus said the following: "If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over. But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.' If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.(Mat 18:1517 (NIV)).

Jesus spoke of an individual sin towards another person, but it can also be a general sin in the congregation. In this case, it's a sin committed by a born again Christian. Jesus isn't here talking about sin committed by unbelievers.

If a person (believer or unbeliever) causes a Christian follower to stumble (to sin), it's as if that person did it to Jesus Christ himself, see 
Who is the Greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven?  
Revenge isn't an option, 
God will deal with it (Rom 12:1921), see
Love and not revenge in The Sermon on the Mount

Jesus gives us guidelines for how to act if it's a Christian believer who hurts me, offends me, commits sin against me. We should then act in the following way instead of just ignoring it, see time 28:03–31:37 in December 2024 Bible Q&A:

  1. I should go and tell him how I feel about the incident. I should do it face to face alone with him, possibly over the phone. Definitely not via social media, SMS, email, or the like. It should be done in love and not in anger, see time 24:03–28:48 in Living In The Light Of Christ's Return (I Peter 4). "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." (Eph 4:29).
    The goal of the conversation is restoration, not revenge. "And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all." (1 Thess 5:14). If not, I shouldn't go at all. "There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." (Proverbs 12:18). If he listens to me, I have gained my brother
    (Mat 18:15, Luk 17:3–4). In many cases this is enough and solves the problem. God wants to restore our relationships (Gal 6:1). We shouldn't talk about it with people who aren't involved. It's gossip (Proverbs 18:8).
  2. If he refuses to listen, I should bring one or two others as witnesses and talk to him again (Mat 18:16). These persons must then be neutral and not be biased (Proverbs 18:17). This is the only time to involve other people in this matter. But then I have to get a commitment from the people to be witnesses that they really come, before I tell them the question. Otherwise it will be gossip. The witnesses can be helpful in the restoration process.
  3. If this doesn't work, I should tell tell the church leadership (Mat 18:17a). 
    It must then be public (1 Tim 5:20). The Body of Christ should put pressure
    on this individual to resolve his problem with sin. To confess it before the Lord as a sin and ask God for forgiveness and restoration. The goal is
    to find restoration. There will be an attitude and expression of tough love,
    see Was John 7:53–8:11 in the Original Text? Another reason to bring in
    the church leadership is to inform them of this problem, that there is a person who has chosen to live a sinful lifestyle and has refused repeated attempts
    to repent. The goal is still to bring this person back to the Lord and to have him/her restored, see The Parables of the Lost Sheep and the Lost Coin.
  4. If the person who sinned still refuses to listen and doesn't repent, he should be treated as a pagan: "If he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector." (Mat 18:17b). This means that the Body of Christ should have nothing to do with him. The withdrawal shouldn't be done in anger or bitterness, but with the goal of repentance and restoration. Jesus showed compassion, tenderness, forgiveness, but not tolerance for sin. He said to the woman who had been caught in adultery: "Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more." (John 8:11b). See the withdrawal
    explained: time 43:37–45:53 in Bible Q & A With Pastor Paul │ January 2024. It's important to still show love and compassion to such a person.

Apostle Paul addressed this type of situation in a letter to the Corinthian congregation. There was a born again Christian who was involved in a physical relationship with his stepmother. Paul told them to exclude the man from the congregation (see step 4 above). Paul's intention was to get this individual saved,
to bring this person to a state of repentance. In a later letter to this 
congregation,
Paul wrote that if anyone has caused pain to the congregation, and has been punished for this, then the punishment given was enough. They should now rather turn to forgiveness and comfort him. (2 Cor 2:6–8). That person would then probably have repented. For more information, see The Book of Corinthians

If one is called to bring correction in the life of a Christian believer because of some sinful act that this person has done, it's important not to overdo it and not to say things that do not come from the Lord to say, see time
5:57–9:17 in 1 Timothy 5 • Instructions Concerning Widows and Elders/Pastors.
But see also the times 8:56–12:11 and 12:24–18:07 in Bible Q&A • Episode 4.

Isaiah prophesied about Jesus, that he wouldn't break off a bent reed, and he won't extinguish a dimly burning wick (Isaiah 42:3). It speaks about the meek and gentle nature of Jesus. Jesus is gentle and humble in heart (Mat 11:29). When we are hard on people who make mistakes, there is a lot of pride behind it. To correct and rebuke a person, one must be gentle and careful, because it shows humility. Pride is contrary to the heart of God. Humility, brokenness from pride, tenderness, kindness, and compassion are qualities that God wants us to portray to other people.

A younger Christian leader shouldn't rebuke an older man but encourage him
as if he was his father. He should treat younger men as brothers, older women
as mothers, younger women as biological sisters in all purity (1 Tim 5:1–2).
See also The Parable about a Blind Leading the Blind.

We should always treat each other with respect as if they were family members
or close friends, with the same kind of compassion and kindness. 
Beware of destructive criticism, see 4) Miriam and Aaron Opposing Moses
in Moses; Part 13: Rebellion and Paganism.

Automatically disfellowshipping members from a congregation simply for inaction
in attending meetings held by the congregation is unbiblical and doesn't help these people. It only hurts them and and can also hurt the congregation. There is no example in the Bible of doing that, see time 15:49–19:09 in Bible Q&A • Episode 48. The goal must be restoration and not punishment.

See also time 41:11–43:05 in Bible Q & A With Pastor Paul │December 2023.

See also Some stories in the gospels at the bottom of The Four Gospels.